Little Lies and Other Lessons from the Five Precepts – Insight Meditation Society

Reflections on the Five Precepts from IMS Resident Teacher Chas DiCapua

Is it improper to inform a lie? What if it’s solely a bit of lie, and also you’re telling it to keep away from hurting somebody’s emotions?

These are the sorts of questions we’d discover ourselves dealing with when training with Buddhism’s Five Precepts. These 5 commitments or tips of coaching type the premise of conduct and understanding for lay and monastic dharma practitioners. They are:

  1. To chorus from destroying dwelling creatures.
  2. To chorus from taking that which isn’t given.
  3. To chorus from sexual misconduct.
  4. To chorus from incorrect speech.
  5. To chorus from intoxicating drinks and medicines which result in carelessness.

Perhaps after we first hear the teachings on the Five Precepts, they make some sense to us. For instance, possibly initially, we are able to get behind the notion of not telling lies as a type of incorrect speech.

But what if it’s a bit of lie advised to guard the sentiments of somebody we love? Is that okay to do?

Or possibly we are able to perceive that it’s a good suggestion to chorus from harming dwelling beings (together with ourselves), however does this lengthen to swatting mosquitoes which might be harassing us?

We would possibly agree that it’s not proper to take one thing that we all know belongs to another person. But does this embrace protecting one thing we discover that we don’t know who it belongs to?

We start training the Buddha’s path to liberation—together with the Five Precepts—proper the place we’re. There’s nothing proper or improper about the place we’re within the second. We start with this physique, coronary heart, and thoughts—simply as it’s.

In the start, we’d assume that it’s okay to inform a bit of lie, particularly to keep away from hurting one other particular person. Or we’d assume it’s okay to swat annoying mosquitos or preserve one thing we discover after we don’t know whose it’s.

As we proceed to stroll the Noble Eightfold Path, our mindfulness grows, and we grow to be extra conscious of all issues. We grow to be extra related to or intimate with life, together with our personal hearts and minds. As this unfolds, our hearts naturally grow to be extra delicate. We don’t have to try to make that occur; it simply does.

As our hearts grow to be extra delicate or we grow to be extra conscious of what blocks the sensitivity of our hearts, our understanding of and relationship to the Five Precepts modifications. Certain speech and actions that after felt okay, would possibly now not really feel proper to us.

As this occurs, our ideas and emotions about telling a bit of lie might change. When as soon as it felt okay, now it doesn’t really feel proper. Not as a result of we’re attempting to enhance or be a greater particular person, however as a result of, by way of elevated mindfulness, we’ve observed that previously we advised little lies to make ourselves look higher as a result of we didn’t really feel okay with how we have been. Now we don’t wish to feed that sense of not being okay. We wish to be okay simply as we’re and so now we keep away from telling the little lies as a result of we all know that doing so received’t be congruent with being okay with ourselves as we at the moment are—on this second.

As we discover the behavior patterns of our personal coronary heart and thoughts that trigger ourselves and others struggling, we naturally perceive that others have very related patterns of their hearts and minds. The results of this consciousness is larger compassion and kindness towards different beings. Again, not as a result of we’re imagined to, however as a result of, primarily based on what we all know by way of our personal expertise, it turns into the one sane response.

The cultivation of the Five Precepts is ongoing all through our total lives. Working with these 5 tips isn’t a rule-based, linear course of. It evolves naturally and organically as our understanding of the world—which incorporates ourselves—deepens.



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